In a global context, women-friendly urban development emphasizes enhancing inclusivity and equity to create universally accessible city spaces. In China, community public spaces, as core settings of daily life, have become crucial entry points for advancing women-friendly urban development. However, unlike narrowly defined “female-only” spaces, the inherently “public” nature of public spaces presents challenges to inclusive design practices-namely, how to achieve gender inclusivity while respecting gender-based perceptual differences. This study employs eye-tracking experiments to explore community public space perception and design strategies from a gender perspective. First, grounded in scene theory and visual attention theory, we establish a research framework on gender differences in spatial perception, systematically analyzing perceptual mechanisms across genders and examining the implications of eye-tracking experiments in this context. Second, we leverage experimental evidences to reveal perceptual differences across various design scenes within community green spaces, street spaces, and activity spaces, uncovering mechanisms underlying these differences and identifying key spatial elements. Finally, we propose womenfriendly community public space design strategies from three dimensions: bodily comfort-oriented spatial elements, psychologically supportive experiential spaces, and socially inclusive functional planning. This study, grounded in human-scale perspectives and informed by neuroscientific methods, underscores the necessity and feasibility of incorporating gender sensitivity into urban planning and design. By integrating interdisciplinary frameworks and combining quantitative and qualitative analyses, this study aims to enrich the theoretical and methodological foundations of women-friendly urban development in China, contributing to the creation of inclusive, safe, and sustainable cities and communities.